It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters Epictetus Ancient wisdom taught us that it is not the circumstances or events in our life that matter, but the meaning we give to them and how we decide to respond to them. Epictetus was a Greek philosopher who lived [...]
Positive Psychology
5 Things Busy Executives Need To Know About Mindfulness At Work
December 30, 2016 – Posted in: Mindfulness, Positive PsychologyMindfulness is the new corporate buzzword, trending on Twitter and pretty much everywhere else. If meditation has been on that (ever-growing) list of things you’ll get to when you’re on vacation or things “finally quiet down,” you’ve come to the right place. As one of the first 30 certified teachers of the Search Inside Yourself [...]
Using Your Strengths To Flourish At Work And In Life
September 24, 2016 – Posted in: Positive PsychologyYou may have heard that if you want to thrive at work and in life you should focus on your strengths, your innate talents, what comes to you naturally. But you may be thinking this can’t be true, seems too easy and probably is an excuse used by those who don’t want to do the [...]
An Evidence Based Tool To Boost Your Emotional Intelligence
March 1, 2015 – Posted in: Emotional Intelligence, Positive PsychologyYou’ve read a book on emotional intelligence or you’ve attended a workshop and you liked it. You realize that these competencies and skills can help you move forward in your career, be a more effective leader, make better decisions and develop stronger interpersonal relationships. So what’s next? What is the best way to learn and [...]
What happens to your brain when you “flip your lid”?
February 20, 2015 – Posted in: Mindfulness, Neuroscience, Positive PsychologyDr. Siegel has a unique ability to make complicated scientific concepts exciting and easy to understand and here he is explaining that “flip”. Dr. Siegel is currently clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine where he is on the faculty of the Center for Culture, Brain, and Development and the founding co-director [...]
Getting More Of What You Want!
February 12, 2015 – Posted in: Life Balance, Positive PsychologyWe often think about life balance as a zero sum game. We assume that if we strive in one dimension then we need to make sacrifices in another. But there is a more inspiring way of thinking, which shows us that we don’t have to make trade-offs or certainly not as often as we think. [...]
New Year Resolutions – Can Flow Help Us Achieve Our Goals?
January 11, 2015 – Posted in: Life Balance, Neuroscience, Positive PsychologyBeing in the zone, experiencing flow, is this awesome state where we feel at our best and perform at our best. In this state we are so fully engaged and absorbed with the task at hand that all else falls away and our performance goes through the roof. Wouldn’t it be great to be able [...]
Do You Languish or Do You Flourish?
March 6, 2013 – Posted in: Positive PsychologyEmotions are powerful and drive our decisions and our behaviors. They change us at a cellular level and are transformative. Positive emotions transform our lives for the better by broadening our awareness and by bringing out the best of us. Barbara Fredrickson has spent her career studying positive emotions. She is [...]
Positive Emotions Open Our Mind
February 14, 2013 – Posted in: Positive PsychologyWhat are positive emotions? There is a whole range — from amusement, to awe, to interest, to gratitude, to inspiration — what they all have in common is that they are reactions to our current circumstances. They aren’t a permanent state; they’re feelings that come and go. That’s true of all emotions, but positive emotions [...]
Savoring
December 19, 2012 – Posted in: Positive PsychologyAs I am vacationing in Cabo San Lucas the highlight of my mornings is to go jogging on the beach. I feel blessed to enjoy nature’s beauty and warn sunshine while it is freezing cold back home in Chicago. As I run, I feel surrounded by breathtaking beauty and serenity and by the sound of [...]